March 2024

how to change your life

The Question is: How to Change Your Life?

How to Change Your Life   Happiness, as they say, is an inside job.   The First Question: The first question is easy: do you need to change your life? Reflections and resources are everywhere, but honesty is the tool you need. After that, we can talk about how to change your life in specifics. […]

Meditations, Philosophy

Leaving Can Be Hard: Departing from Morro Bay

I have arrived in LIttlefield, Arizona, just on the far side of the Nevada border. It was a long, tiring drive. The morning began beautifully, with “Barely” showing me how he feeds the blue jays from his porch. That was the highlight of the day. After that, Cholame, then Bakersfield, and then the Mojave desert

Lifestyle, Travel

I think Dad Misunderstood California Dreaming …

It’s funny when you are born somewhere, like California, that has such a big cultural significance. California dreaming was an idiom and a song when I was a kid. I took it for granted. I knew nothing else, since I was born here, but California dreaming was something my dad experienced as a young man,

Lifestyle, Travel
fuscias of California coast

In the Land of the Lotus Eaters

My father used to say that the indigenous Californians were less violent than the plains tribes. I didn’t think of that as a sign of a difference between the tribes themselves so much as the effect of the weather and geography of California. When you’re in California, particularly on the coast, with the sound of

Lifestyle, Travel

The Long Drive Continues — Utah to the Sea

Around noon I began to wonder how crazy I was to plan the long drive I was taking. The second day of 500 plus miles. Mile after mile of standing on the pedal and holding the wheel. It was uncomfortable. I wasn’t bored, though, actually. I was enjoying the drive, the country unfolding before me.

Lifestyle, Travel
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